There is something about being fully seen, heard and acknowledged that is healing in and of itself.
Many of the women that I work with share with me that they’ve actually hesitated to work with a coach because they’re so tired of “pushing”. They worry that working with another coach is going to mean that they have to push more, even if it’s towards their dreams and desires.
Some of my clients have even been shamed, blamed and made wrong in past coaching relationships if they didn’t demonstrate immediate, swift and significant action towards their aspirations. It’s true that a coach is meant to support their clients in accomplishing their goals, getting stuff done and receiving their desires.
But when my clients come to me and tell me they’re struggling with low energy, highly demanding lives, and an overwhelming sense of pressure and stress, I know that the last thing my clients need is someone standing behind them with a cattle prod demanding action NOW.
Instead, I meet my clients WHERE THEY ARE and I support them from that place first and foremost.
This is where my coaching is different than most.
I’m steadfastly devoted to helping my clients achieve the results they want to see. And I’m equally compassionate and fierce when it comes to helping my clients overcome the roadblocks and obstacles that are standing between where they are now and where they really want to be.
But I also know that my clients long to give up the way they’ve been working – that relentless pushing-proving-forcing pattern that’s left them feeling tired, burdened and stressed. I know that if my clients want to avoid the pitfall of pushing more, it’s important that we set the tone and pace for our work together by tuning into some deeper truths.
Many of my clients come to work with me because they know they want to make changes in their lives, but it’s equally clear that big, bold and massive movement is NOT what needs to happen.
They need permission to go slowly, be very deliberate, feel the things they’ve avoided for far too long, and find their way in the darkness for a while until they discover what they’ve lost, what they’ve been looking for, or what’s going to make all of the difference for them to be able to truly move forward… when they are ready.
I ask questions and I listen: Is it a time for big, fast, rapid movement? Or is it a time for introspection, feeling, discernment, spaciousness and a slower pace? Is it a time for being in uncomfortable human emotions and experiences? Or is it time for seeing the bigger picture and mining the spiritual lessons from it all? Is it a time for messiness, disorder, chaos and uncertainty? Or is it a time for pulling things together, getting laser focused and taking aligned action?
Because there is a time for it all.
If you want to step out of the old paradigm of working that’s left you feeling depleted, resentful and so. freaking. tired… Then it’s imperative that you tune into and start trusting the natural cycles and rhythms of things.
My work is about attuning to what needs to happen in THIS moment, and to give my clients full permission to slow down, or even stop completely for a while, if that’s what is needed.
I’m not only here to help my clients reach their goals. I’m also here to support and guide them to drink from a deep well of nourishment – one that’s filled with self-love and self-acceptance, trust, integrity, fulfillment, vitality and joy – and one that will help them attune to and align with the phase of life that they’re in.
This is the well that will bring you home to yourself, to your greatest wealth, vitality, energy, radiance and wisdom, and to Transcendent Health itself.
With love and deep listening,
Alicia
PS: If you’d like to explore first-hand what working with me is like, you can apply to a complimentary Wisdom Activation Call with me here.
PPS: The countdown to the end of 2018 is here! How are you feeling? I recently hosted a group Q&A call for all of the members of my online community to offer them my insight, guidance and support because this time of year can feel challenging for so many reasons. I’m hosting a second Q&A call on Tuesday December 11th. Want to join us? Click here!
PPPS: The 13 Holy Nights are coming! Stay tuned for more! xx
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